In life, you are only guaranteed a few things: death and yourself. Meaning that the only thing you are ever promised to have in life, is yourself. You are the only person that can truly make you happy and no other person can complete that or take it away, unless you allow them to. This just means that you never allow anyone to do so.
You are destined to be miserable unless you are looking out for yourself, especially when it comes to relationships. Never fully give your heart to someone, if you choose to, don't expect to get that same love in return. In a relationship, there will always be one individual who cares and loves more than the other. And no matter how well you know someone, don't fully trust them, with anything. One thing you should always account for when you think you can confide in someone is to at least have a few problems with them. No friendship is perfect and you will disagree sooner or later. So don't say anything to them that you don't want anyone else to hear, because all it takes is one slip of the mouth from that one person you told.
As you get older you learn to build a wall to protect yourself, it's something we all do, we have to. Well that wall should never come down, for anyone. You may allow someone in by taking a few bricks out here and there, but never take a full wall down. Compare that to living in a house with only three walls; it makes you completely vulnerable to the elements from one side.
In the end there is just one thing to keep in mind: when it comes to your heartache, pain and sorrow, and wiping those tears away from your porcelain eyes, the only person you have to count on, is you.
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